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And yet suspicions to the contrary remain—fueled, in part, by another book: Steve Jobsby Walter Isaacson. Steve Jobs was an asshole and he was one of the most successful businessmen on the planet.

McNichol is not alone. Lacking an Adam Grant to weave them together, the data that support a counter-case remain disconnected.

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Philosophers since Aristotle have been obsessed with categories, and James—who got a doctorate in philosophy at Harvard and teaches at the University of California at Irvine—is no exception. What did I mean, exactly, by asshole? James honed a definition that he finally published in his book, Assholes: A Theory. What separates the asshole from the psychopath is that he engages in moral reasoning he understands that people have rights; his entitlement simply leads him to believ his rights should take precedence.

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The question is whether prestige supplanted dominance as the only path to power—or whether the older system also remains operational. Using data from North Carolina high schools, Faris uncovered a pattern showing that, contrary to the stereotype of high-status kids victimizing low-status ones, most aggression is local: And the higher one rises on that ladder, the more frequent the acts of aggression—until, near the very top, aggression ceases almost completely.

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